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Tuesday, September 8, 2026

Eternal Progression • A Fuller Life for Everyone • Live and Help Live

“For now we see in a mirror, dimly.”1 Corinthians 13:12


🌍 Interfaith Prayer for Peace

Peace Without Certainty

Sacred Mystery,

known by countless names,

encountered through countless traditions,

and exceeding every name we give you,

teach us to live peacefully without requiring certainty.

Human beings have often become dangerous when we confuse our understanding of truth with truth itself.

We create doctrines.

Ideologies.

Political systems.

Religious traditions.

Sacred books.

Philosophies.

And then sometimes forget that every human interpretation comes through human eyes.

So today we pray for humility.

We join our hearts with Christians, Jews, Muslims, Hindus, Buddhists, Sikhs, Pagans, Baháʼís, followers of Indigenous traditions, humanists, seekers, doubters, agnostics, atheists, and everyone seeking a fuller life for every being.

Where nations believe violence is inevitable, open another possibility.

Where religions claim exclusive possession of the Sacred, open windows.

Where political tribes reduce neighbors to enemies, restore curiosity.

Where racism, antisemitism, Islamophobia, xenophobia, misogyny, queerphobia, ableism, and hatred divide communities, teach us to encounter persons before categories.

Where civilians suffer beneath war, protect life.

Where refugees wander without home, awaken hospitality.

Where children inherit conflicts they did not create, interrupt the inheritance.

Where people hunger, move food toward empty tables.

Where creation groans beneath exploitation, teach humanity again that Earth is community rather than commodity.

And where we ourselves have become too certain to listen, unsettle us.

Teach us the humility to say:

Perhaps I am wrong.

Teach us the courage to say:

Tell me more.

Teach us the wisdom to say:

I don’t know.

And teach us the compassion to say:

Even though we disagree, your dignity remains.

Perhaps peace does not require everyone believing the same thing.

Perhaps peace requires learning how to love across difference.

May uncertainty make us curious rather than afraid.

Peace within us.
Peace between us.
Justice among us.
Humility within us.

One Earth.
One human family.
Many paths.
A shared future.

May our convictions have strong roots and open doors.

Amen. So may it be. Salaam. Shalom. Blessed be.

Peace to all beings.


🌿 Daily Kilubansa Healing Ritual

The Healing of Not Knowing

Place a bowl or cup of clean water before you.

Beside it place a stone, seed, flower, leaf, or familiar herb.

Take three slow breaths.

With the first breath say:

I release the demand for certainty.

With the second:

I make room for curiosity.

With the third:

I remain open to what comes.

Invocation

Sacred Source of Healing,

Kilubansa, healing presence,

meet us inside uncertainty.

Some people are waiting for diagnoses.

Some are waiting for treatment results.

Some are waiting for answers.

Some are grieving.

Some are adapting.

Some are beginning again.

Some simply do not know what tomorrow will bring.

We often imagine that peace will arrive once every question has been answered.

But sometimes the answers take time.

And sometimes no complete answer comes.

So teach us another kind of peace:

the peace of living gently inside the unanswered.

Bless those frightened by uncertainty.

Bless those living with illness, disability, pain, grief, or changing abilities.

Bless those awaiting appointments.

Bless those receiving treatment.

Bless those learning new routines.

Bless those who depend upon caregivers.

Bless caregivers who themselves do not know what tomorrow will require.

And bless everyone trying to make good decisions with incomplete information.

Healing Action

Touch the water.

Say:

I do not know everything.

Hold the natural object.

Say:

I still have somewhere to stand.

Touch your forehead.

May I know what can be known.

Touch your heart.

May I accept what remains uncertain.

Touch your hands.

May I do what can be done today.

Now ask:

What do I actually know right now?

Name one thing.

Then ask:

What am I only afraid might happen?

Notice the difference.

Finally ask:

What is one helpful action available today?

Perhaps making an appointment.

Following professional advice.

Eating.

Drinking water.

Resting.

Writing something down.

Asking someone for help.

Going outside.

Or doing absolutely nothing about the problem for the next hour.

Not every uncertainty requires an emergency committee meeting inside your head.

Closing

Touch the water again.

Say:

I can live without knowing everything.

I will seek appropriate care.
I will ask questions.
I will accept appropriate help.
I will work with what is known.
I will leave room for what remains unknown.

Uncertainty does not erase possibility.

I will live and help live.

So may it be.

This contemplative spiritual practice complements rather than replaces appropriate professional healthcare.


🌱 Herbal Minute

Lavender — The Fragrant Flower

Today’s herb is lavender, especially English lavender (Lavandula angustifolia).

Lavender has a long history in European herbal and aromatic traditions and is widely used in teas, culinary preparations, sachets, baths, and aromatherapy.

Traditionally, lavender has been associated with relaxation and digestive comfort.

Traditional use, however, does not establish that lavender can treat anxiety disorders, insomnia, or other medical conditions.

Simple Lavender Tea

Use culinary-grade dried lavender flowers intended for tea.

Lavender has a strong flavor, so start small.

Use approximately ½ teaspoon of dried flowers per 8 ounces of hot water.

Cover.

Steep approximately 5–10 minutes.

Strain.

Some people enjoy combining a small amount of lavender with another familiar tea.

Lavender teaches an important herbal lesson:

More is not always better.

Use too much lavender in tea and you may discover that your peaceful herbal beverage tastes suspiciously like drinking a scented drawer.

Start gently.

You can always adjust.

Herbal Wisdom

Aromatic plants contain volatile compounds responsible for much of their fragrance.

That is one reason aromatic teas are commonly covered while steeping.

But there is another important distinction:

An herb and its essential oil are not interchangeable.

Lavender flowers used as tea or food contain relatively small amounts of aromatic constituents.

Lavender essential oil is highly concentrated.

Concentration changes both use and risk.

Herbal Common Sense

Use lavender specifically intended for culinary or tea use rather than decorative flowers that may have been treated with chemicals unsuitable for consumption.

People allergic or sensitive to lavender should avoid it.

Lavender may contribute to drowsiness in some people, particularly when used alongside other sedating substances or medications.

Pregnancy and breastfeeding warrant additional caution with concentrated medicinal preparations.

Essential oils should not be casually swallowed.

Anyone taking medications or considering concentrated or regular medicinal lavender preparations should consult a pharmacist or another qualified healthcare professional about individual risks and possible interactions.

Today’s Herbal Minute

Start small.
Know your source.
Cover aromatic teas.
Respect concentration.
Flowers and essential oils are not interchangeable.

Herbal education complements rather than replaces appropriate medical care.


✝️ Order of Franciscan Clareans Reflection

Faith After Certainty

For many people, faith once meant certainty.

You knew God existed.

You knew exactly what God wanted.

You knew which religion was correct.

You knew which doctrines were true.

You knew who was saved.

You knew who was wrong.

And you knew which Bible verses proved it.

Then something happened.

You studied.

You suffered.

You met people outside your religious bubble.

You encountered historical criticism.

Science complicated something.

Life contradicted something.

Or perhaps the old answers simply stopped working.

And suddenly:

certainty disappeared.

Some people call that losing faith.

Perhaps it is sometimes the beginning of a deeper one.

The theologian Paul Tillich distinguished faith from mere intellectual belief.

Faith concerns what ultimately claims us—our ultimate concern.

That means faith is deeper than agreeing with propositions.

John D. Caputo pushes us further.

Perhaps God is not primarily an object about whom we possess correct information.

Perhaps the name God contains a call.

Justice calls.

Hospitality calls.

Forgiveness calls.

Compassion calls.

The impossible possibility of another world calls.

God insists.

But that insistence does not force itself into existence.

It waits for human response.

Then Jacques Derrida complicates things beautifully.

Justice is always still to come.

We never possess it completely.

The moment we declare:

“We have finally achieved perfect justice,”

someone at the edge of our system will probably remind us that we have not.

Justice keeps disturbing justice.

Hospitality keeps challenging our boundaries.

The future remains open.

Francis understood this without needing the vocabulary of postmodern philosophy.

He did not receive Christianity as a completed system.

He heard:

Rebuild my church.

Clare heard another possibility too.

She refused to allow ecclesiastical expectations to determine completely how her community would live.

Francis and Clare were not custodians of certainty.

They were pilgrims responding to a call.

And that may be exactly what Christianity needs again.

Not people pretending to possess God.

Pilgrims.

Seekers.

Listeners.

Holy troublemakers.

People willing to admit:

I might be wrong about some things.

And yet still say:

But I will answer love.

Our objective is Eternal Progression.

Therefore no theology gets the final word.

Our goal is A Fuller Life for Everyone.

Therefore theology must continually ask whose life is being diminished.

Our slogan is Live and Help Live.

Therefore ideas eventually have to become practices.

Perhaps faith after certainty sounds like this:

I cannot prove God.

But justice still calls me.

I cannot explain every mystery.

But compassion still calls me.

I do not know exactly what happens after death.

But life before death still matters.

I do not possess ultimate truth.

But I can still seek truth.

I cannot see the entire road.

But I can take another step.

This is not faith without doubt.

This is faith spacious enough for doubt.

And perhaps God is not waiting at the end of our questions with an answer sheet.

Perhaps God happens in the questioning itself—

in the call,

in the interruption,

in the possibility,

in the justice still to come.

Live simply.
Love boldly.
Question deeply.
Remain open.
Keep walking.


Order of ChristoCorrellians Ritual

The Open Door

Place a candle or electric candle before you.

Beside it place a bowl of water and a stone, seed, leaf, flower, or familiar herb.

Take three slow breaths.

Say:

Sacred Mystery,
God and Goddess,
Christ and Holy Wisdom,
Divine Feminine and Sacred Spirit,
meet me beyond certainty.

East — Air

Face or visualize the East.

Say:

Sacred Air, open windows in my thinking.

Let new possibilities breathe.

South — Fire

Turn toward the South.

Say:

Sacred Fire, burn away certainties that have become cruel.

Leave behind what serves love.

West — Water

Turn toward the West.

Touch the water.

Say:

Sacred Water, teach me to change without fear.

Let wisdom remain fluid.

North — Earth

Turn toward the North.

Hold the natural object.

Say:

Sacred Earth, ground my searching in reality, relationship, compassion, and life.

Return to the Center

Look toward the candle.

Say:

Christ, become the call toward radical love.

Touch the water.

Divine Mother, hold the mysteries I cannot solve.

Hold your natural object.

Holy Spirit, open futures I cannot yet imagine.

Place both hands over your heart.

Say:

I release the need to possess Mystery.

Pause.

Imagine a door before you.

You cannot see what lies beyond it.

You do not have to walk through today.

Simply allow the door to remain open.

Say:

The future does not need to resemble the past.

Now pray:

May Christian wisdom teach resurrection and transformation.

May Correllian and Pagan wisdom teach sacred cycles and the wisdom of Earth.

May Jewish wisdom teach the holiness of wrestling with Mystery.

May Buddhist wisdom teach freedom from clinging.

May Islamic wisdom teach humility before the One beyond human comprehension.

May Indigenous wisdom remind humanity that knowledge emerges through relationship.

May humanist wisdom keep our searching accountable to human dignity.

May science teach us to revise what we think we know.

May philosophy keep asking uncomfortable questions.

Raise your hands slightly.

Air opens.
Fire transforms.
Water adapts.
Earth grounds.
Christ calls.
Wisdom questions.
Justice remains to come.
Sacred Mystery exceeds every name.

The door remains open.

I remain a pilgrim.

I will live and help live.

Amen and blessed be.


🚶 The Urban Pilgrim’s Practice

Say “I Don’t Know” Once

Today, when you genuinely do not know something, resist the temptation to manufacture certainty.

Say:

“I don’t know.”

Then add:

“But I’m willing to learn.”

Those may be among the most spiritually mature words available to human beings.

You do not need an opinion about everything.

You do not need to solve every theological mystery.

You do not need to win every argument.

You do not need to become the Department of Definitive Answers for the entire universe.

Try curiosity instead.

Ask somebody:

“How did you come to see it that way?”

Then listen.

Not to formulate your rebuttal.

To understand.

Let one question remain open today.


📖 Pilgrim’s Blessing

May the Sacred Mystery remain larger than every doctrine you construct.

May Christ meet you in the stranger who complicates your theology.

May the Divine Feminine hold you when certainty disappears.

May the Spirit whisper through questions you once feared asking.

May Brother Sun illuminate without pretending to illuminate everything.

May Sister Water teach you that changing shape can be a form of faithfulness.

May Brother Wind blow through rooms where the windows have remained closed too long.

May Mother Earth keep your searching grounded in bodies, communities, creatures, and actual life.

May Francis teach you simplicity.

May Clare teach you courageous persistence.

May Tillich teach you to seek what ultimately concerns you.

May Caputo remind you to listen for the call.

May Derrida remind you that justice remains to come.

May you become suspicious of every theology that requires someone else’s suffering.

May you hold convictions without turning them into cages.

May you doubt without surrendering compassion.

May you question without losing wonder.

May you believe without pretending certainty.

And when someone asks:

“But what if you don’t know?”

may you have the courage to answer:

“Then I will keep walking.”

Because the pilgrim does not need possession of the destination.

The pilgrim needs only the next faithful step.

Eternal Progression.
A Fuller Life for Everyone.
Live and Help Live.

Remember:

We Are One.

Question.

Listen.

Love.

Become.

And tomorrow—

We Walk Again.

Amen. So may it be.

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